katanya Mario Teguh…

•November 1, 2012 • Leave a Comment

Duh.. Menohook banget!

Katanya,

Pikiran wanita itu sederhana: (1) jadikan aku satu-satunya wanitamu; (2) marilah kita hidup saling membahagiakan.. #jleb

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Engkau yang tetap mengharapkan cinta dalam penelantaran, sadarkanlah dirimu …

Engkau semakin menua, dan dengan kesedihan itu engkau menjadi semakin kurang menarik bagi orang lain yang mungkin akan lebih memuliakanmu.

Mengapakah kau korbankan kebaikan hati dan dirimu untuk orang yang tidak merawat hatimu?

Apakah hatimu juga buta terhadap kesedihan orang tua dan mereka yang menyayangimu – yang tak rela melihat penistaan atas dirimu?Seberapa lumpuhkah pikiranmu dan seberapa mati rasa-kah hatimu, sehingga engkau merendahkan dirimu dalam pengemisan tak berjawab seperti itu?

Hormatilah dirimu, jika engkau ingin mendapatkan cinta yang menghormatimu.

Mario Teguh – Loving you all as always

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“Pengemis cinta hanya sesuai bagi penelantar cinta

Reflection

•October 20, 2012 • Leave a Comment

Kehilangan adalah awal yang baru untuk mencari seseorang yang lebih tepat, seseorang yang lebih bisa menghargai ketulusan kita dan menerima kelebihan sekaligus kekurangan kita. Karena tak ada seorangpun sempurna..

Note to self:

If you are not ready for a relationship, do not even start. It will hurt other people. When it is time, then it is, you will make a room for that person. She might not be in the right package you wanted but she does not have to fight for a spot in your heart competing with your dignity. Because you never know that she might be the one proudly smile to the world saying, “that’s him!” and that makes you a better person for the world…

ah, love is always a mystery. I never know whom i could fall for, to what kind of personality. Nevertheless, it always brings an experience to me, a lesson for my future path ^_^

I Have Enough

•September 8, 2012 • Leave a Comment

Recently I overheard a father and daughter in their last moments together at the airport. They had announced the departure.

Standing near the security gate, they hugged and the father said, ‘I love you, and I wish you enough …’

The daughter replied, ‘Dad, our life together has been more than enough. Your love is all I ever needed. I wish you enough, too, Dad …’

They kissed and the daughter left.

The father walked over to the window where I was seated.

Standing there I could see he wanted and needed to cry.

I tried not to intrude on his privacy, but he welcomed me in by asking, ‘Did you ever say good-bye to someone knowing it would be forever?’

‘Yes, I have,’ I replied. ‘Forgive me for asking, but why is this a forever good-bye …?’

‘I am old, and she lives so far away. I have challenges ahead and the reality is – the next trip back maybe for my funeral …,’ he said.

‘When you were saying good-bye, I heard you say, ‘I wish you enough..’ May I ask what that means?’

He began to smile. ‘That’s a wish that has been handed down from other generations. My parents used to say it to everyone …’

He paused a moment and looked up as if trying to remember it in detail, and he smiled even more.

‘When we said, ‘I wish you enough,’ we were wanting the other person to have a life filled with just enough good things to sustain them’

Then turning toward me, he shared the following as if he were reciting it from memory:

I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright no matter how gray the day may appear.

I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun even more.

I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive and everlasting.

I wish you enough pain so that even the smallest of joys in life may appear bigger.

I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.

I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.

I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good-bye.

He then began to cry and walked away.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to apprecite them, a day to love them; but then an entire life to forget them …

*Only if you wish, send this to the people you will never forget and remember to send it back to the person who sent it to you. If you don’t send it to anyone it may mean that you are in such a hurry that you have forgotten your friends. TAKE TIME TO LIVE …

To all my friends and love ones, I WISH YOU ENOUGH ..

my musing…

•August 1, 2012 • Leave a Comment

It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone and a day to love someone. – but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

-dinner @Kiyadon, 30 July 2012

Hope for the best to happen!

•June 26, 2012 • Leave a Comment

You aRe the conversation I have with God in each of my intimate moments

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It is not always as smooth as you expected…but one shall believe, God listens to every hope we whispered and remember: His plan is always the best than ours..

Ya Allah Yang Maha Pengasih dan Penyayang, Engkaulah Zat yang membolak-balikkan hati.. Untuk itu kutitipkan rasa ini..

midnight random thought…

•June 6, 2012 • Leave a Comment

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•January 6, 2012 • Leave a Comment

“When you’re young, your whole life is about the pursuit of fun. Then, you grow up and learn to be cautious. You could break a bone or a heart. You look before you leap and sometimes you don’t leap at all because there’s not always someone there to catch you. And in life, there’s no safety net. When did it stop being fun and start being scary?”

 

Sex and the City